Right Now

I’m in bed early tonight after walking up and down the stairs and doing push ups the past couple of days. My legs are tired and sore, along with my triceps and pecs. From my vantage point, I can see many floors in the building across the street at the same time. Four floors in a row have their TV in the same place in the living room. Two are watching the same channel. I’ve got my tablet on the left and my Lagavulin on the right. I take a bite and savor it, tasting the burnt grass and peat smoke. Someone slams the door outside and I remember that the water supply to our toilet has been shut off. Maybe they’re doing construction or something. In the distance, the sound of a jack hammer striking the pavement can be heard. It’s 9:07 PM.


It’s now 9:36 PM. I just got off the phone with my mother. Like any other parent, she is concerned with the well-being of her children, myself included. For the first time in 20 years, we are separated by thousands of miles on a permanent basis. Though she visits Hong Kong regularly, it is not the same as living 30 minutes away. And, when she does visit, my sister will be home alone back in the Bay Area.


On the tablet are several PDFs: my resume, a couple of job descriptions, and the mission statement of a firm that might be interested in me. A few days ago I said I would talk about work in a future post. So, this is it. Here goes.

I’ve been reluctant to put myself out there. I’m anxious. I know I’ll have to put on a suit and talk to people, and I’m afraid of getting embarrassed and turning red. It seems like everyone else is so mature and professional and serious while I still act like a kid and mess around and take things too lightly. Everyone else is perfect and can do no wrong while I’m the complete opposite. They all have so many LinkedIn connections while I only have a few.

The water is so cold. I can exercise tomorrow. I don’t want to shower afterwards. I’m not really a good swimmer. I swam yesterday. There are too many people in the pool. I have an irregular stroke that will make me look stupid.

These are some of the thoughts that I’ve been having. They’re not unlike the thoughts I might have before jumping into a swimming pool. I already said last time that taking that leap into the water would bring nothing but good results, but I guess I must not have internalized that lesson yet.

Just like shooting a basketball, if I just do it without thinking about it, the chance of success is high. Just as I’ve gotten pretty good at shooting, I’ve also gotten pretty good at being a professional. I know that no matter where I go I have skills and experience that will enable me to do a good job. And yet, I’m still so anxious about putting myself out there. I know that no matter how much I practice, I will always be anxious around people. I can only hope to minimize my anxiety. Perhaps my anxiety level is high right now because I have been away from the workplace for almost a year. I’m rusty.

When I don’t play basketball for a long time and I start again, I always get anxious before a game. Once the game starts, I get overly excited and I end up playing not as well as I’d like to. Afterwards, I replay what happened in my head and think that if I had just stayed calm, I might have played the way I want to play. I have to remind myself to prevent this from happening when I’m interviewing for a job. Stay positive and avoid generalizations and assumptions. Be more assertive. Remember that it is an interview going both ways, that you’re evaluating them as well. Think win-win.


Now, it is 11:32 AM. I’ve had a night to mull over whether I want to put myself out there and post this entry, and I think I will. The point of this website is reinforcing things that I learn, whether those things be about computers, or about myself. And, if I can help others who might be in the same situation, why not? Sometimes you just need to know that you’re not alone. Things aren’t as bad as you might imagine them to be.

Adventures with Prepaid One2Free Voice Mail

I’ve been pretty happy with my prepaid One2Free phone service. For HKD$88 (USD$11.34) I can get a 1 GB monthly data pass and cheap phone calls. Since I don’t use the phone often, prepaid works for me.

Now that I’m ramping up the job hunt, I figure I should set up voice mail, which the prepaid plan does not include. It’s an additional feature that costs HKD$5 for 30 days of service. OK, no problem. I key in the USSD code and everything looks good.

After I set it up, I proceed to test it. It doesn’t work (see table below). Reading up on the instructions, it seems that the only way voice mail works is if you set up call forwarding to forward all calls to voice mail. It doesn’t make any sense to me, but it does seem to be the case. The instructions don’t expressly state it, but if step 1 doesn’t work and step 2 is “forward all calls”, then perhaps it is logical to conclude that One2Free’s prepaid voice mail works differently than the voice mail I’m used to, which is answering the phone for me and taking a message when I’m unable to do so.

I’ve been unable to find any other answers online, although there are some indications that conditional call forwarding needs to be set up for each possible situation, for example when the phone is busy, when you don’t pick up, etc., and yet these instructions do not appear on the prepaid instructions page. It appears that conditional forwarding may only apply to post-paid plans, not prepaid ones.

The next thing to do is to stop by a One2Free store. I’ll update this post with answers after that happens.

Update: I went to a One2Free store and the associate told me that prepaid service does not have voice mail. I told him that I paid $5 to set up voice mail for 30 days. He spent a few minutes looking at his screen and then gave me the number to customer service, 25123123. I already know that this number won’t help because the second you key in your phone number, the system will tell you that prepaid customers must call a different number for service.

Conclusion: When I was on T-Mobile I hardly ever used voice mail. I think I can do without it here in Hong Kong. If a potential employer is interested enough in me, I’m sure they’d be able to reach me somehow.

Action Result
Letting the phone ring Caller hears a “number cannot be connected” message after a while
Reject the call Caller hears ringing tone until the call is rejected, then hears busy signal
Set up call forwarding Phone doesn’t ring at all, all calls immediately go to voice mail, text message is received indicating new voice mail

Paris, Day 3

October 6, 2012 (Saturday) – our third day in Paris. On this day the first stop on the itinerary was La Sainte-Chapelle, but first we stopped by Pomme de Pain to fuel up:

Pomme de Pain

After some delicious sandwiches and coffees, we took the Metro from Boissière to Palais Royal – Musée du Louvre:

Paris Métro
Looks externally very similar to Hong Kong’s MTR

If you’re familiar with Paris you might be wondering why we got off at Palais Royal – Musée du Louvre to get to Sainte Chapelle. Well, no particular reason, just wanted to walk around and take in the sights. Of course, we couldn’t miss the famous Pont Neuf:

Pont Neuf
5:30 PM. Paris. Today. Pont Neuf. You come alone.

I think I almost saw Jason Bourne looking down at us. Anyway, we finally made it to La Sainte-Chapelle. We paid the admission fee and went inside:

La Sainte Chapelle, Lower Floor

I felt a sense of awe and fascination as I walked around inside this nearly 800-year old building. The length of time is almost unfathomable… how could it still remain standing? How could it be in such good condition? The ingenuity of man is definitely not something to be underestimated.

La Sainte Chapelle Stained Glass

I’m not too familiar with bible stories but apparently the stained glass panels depict scenes from the bible. I wondered if this was the king’s little private bedtime story that he would visit each night. In a time before the printing press, electricity, and television, I’d imagine the stained glass would be as good as it gets. Pretty cool.

Notre Dame de Paris was the next stop. After visiting La Sainte Chapelle, it seemed a bit anti-climactic. For one, there were more tourists and it was a lot more crowded. Secondly, from a religious (or lack thereof) point of view, it was just more of the same to me. I did think that it was cool that people were actually entombed there.

Crypt of Jean Juvénal des Ursins inside Notre Dame de Paris

We had lunch afterwards at a cafe near the Notre Dame. Ugh, what a disaster. Tourist food at tourist prices. Don’t know what we were thinking, but at the same time I guess in a tourist area you can’t ask for much.

The rest of the afternoon was spent at the Notre Dame Archaeological Crypt. This is a great place to visit if archaeology (and getting away from the crowds) is your thing. We spent more time here than at the previous two places combined, learning about the history of Paris and studying the old ruins. To me, these ruins were even more significant than La Sainte Chapelle or Notre Dame because normal people, as opposed to royalty (or the clergy), once lived amongst them.

Notre Dame Archaelogical Crypt

Having walked all day, we were tired and made our way back to our neighborhood, stopping by the supermarket to buy dinner. Of course, the day would not be complete without polishing off another bottle of Bordeaux:

Chateau Les Moutins
You try taking a sharp picture after a bottle of Bordeaux…

Our 3rd day in Paris, and what a day it was!

Next: Paris, Day 4 – Walking, Pâtisseries, and the Louvre

The more things change…

Despite moving to a completely different continent, things are slowly moving back to normal, or our definition of it anyway. I still have my computer with dual monitors sitting on a 4-foot wide IKEA table. I still have my video games and my Scotch whisky. I still like staying up late at night typing shit on my website while JC sleeps quietly in our bedroom.

If there’s one thing I learned while we traveled the world, it’s that the more things change, the more they stay the same. Seriously, people all over the world, they’re all the same. They wake up in the morning, go to work, eat dinner, watch TV, and then go to sleep. They care about their loved ones and worry about the future. They have a place they call home that they’re always glad to go back to. Maybe in Hong Kong, the pace is a little faster. Maybe in Paris, it’s a little slower. And maybe in Scotland, it’s a little colder.

We’re still conditioned to think certain things. For example, both JC and I might think that a loud bang (there are lots of loud bangs here due to constant construction) is a gunshot, and then realize that there aren’t any guns here. For me personally, when I feel a vibration from a truck or the neighbor upstairs, I brace myself for a magnitude 8.0 earthquake. Sometimes I’ll accidentally refer to the MTR as BART.

Overall, I think we did it. We had this vision almost a year and a half ago, and now it’s reality. There are still things to learn and get used to, but on the most part we have our home here now. When I think about all the things we’ve done in the span of 11 months, I find it hard to believe. Last year at this time, I was looking forward to one more month of work, and then being free. Now, I have to look forward to starting work, which I admit I’m reluctant to do after taking so much time off.

I think I’ll save my thoughts on work for a future post. Good night.

Remember to read the fine print…

Just before we moved to Hong Kong I received an offer from one of my credit cards for one year’s worth of interest-free purchases:

0% Promo APR

I figured I’d take advantage of this offer since I’d probably be buying a bunch of stuff for the new place. Today, the first statement arrived, and being the paranoid person that I am, I thought I’d take another look at the offer:

Oops, U.S. only

Man. It never even occurred to me that where a purchase was made would even factor into the offer. Luckily, we didn’t go overboard with buying new things so I’ll be able to pay it all off.

I’m not a big fan of carrying balances on my cards, but on occasion a company will offer me 0% interest and I might take advantage of it. In this situation, it’s probably a blessing in disguise because I had just paid off an interest-free balance that I had carried for nearly a year. On the surface it seems like a good deal because you’re getting free money, but in the end you still have to pay for it. I ended up spending more money than I would have had I not had an interest-free loan.

Remember, spend less than you earn, and all those pennies will add up!

ATI All-in-Wonder Memories

I was cleaning out the garage last summer when I found this, an original ATI All-in-Wonder:


It was a big deal when I first got this because it cost several hundred dollars. I don’t remember the circumstances of its acquisition, but I do remember how much I loved this card. Prior to this technology there wasn’t really anything for average consumers to watch TV on their computers, and I remember how cool it was to be able to do so. The other cool thing was you could connect other A/V devices to it, such as a VCR or, in my case, a Sony Playstation. Being able to play Playstation in my room got me through a couple of years of college. I’d come home for lunch and then squeeze in a race in Gran Turismo. Ah, those were the days.

As part of my big cleanup prior to moving, I was sad to see this card go, but it served its purpose well and I’ll always remember it fondly.

Day 11

It is day 11 since we have moved into our new place, and I’m sitting on our IKEA couch eating a slice of Sara Lee coffee-flavored (or should I say flavoured?) pound cake while drinking Rickshaw black tea out of my Guinness Foreign Extra mug. I had bought the box of Rickshaw tea bags on the first day that we were in Hong Kong. The Guinness mug was a promotional gift that came with the 4-pack that I bought on the first day that we moved in. The IKEA couch arrived exactly one week ago, and the Sara Lee was an impulse buy a couple of days ago when we were at the supermarket right before dinner time.

From the Rickshaw to the Guinness to the Sara Lee, we have covered a period of just over 3 weeks. It is hard to believe that it has only been that short an amount of time when I think of all the things that we have done, like buying furniture and daily necessities and doing other typical move-in things. One fun project was going to the computer mall to buy parts so that I could put my desktop back together. Some not-so-fun activities involved fixing several material issues with the apartment. Tonight is actually the first time I’ve been able to sit down on the couch and relax, a sign that things are finally slowing down and that we’re finally settling in. I like it.

I finally opened the bottle of Lagavulin that I had pledged not to until we had our own place in Hong Kong. I originally bought it from Costco on November 29, 2011. We moved in on March 6, 2013. Not bad at all, not bad at all. In the end, I decided not to open it with too much fanfare. I didn’t even video or photograph it. I just opened it like any other bottle of Scotch, poured it into my Glencairn glass, sniffed it, and then enjoyed it. It was immensely gratifying, especially considering all the occasions when I wanted to cheat and open the bottle before we were in Hong Kong.

Now, the next task will be to find myself a job. It’s a scary thought, since I haven’t worked in nearly a year. If I had to give advice to myself, I would remind myself that 3 weeks ago things looked scary as well. We didn’t know what the future would hold, where we would live, how we would cope. But now, we’re doing just fine. And, who knows? Three weeks from now I might already be slaving away at my new job, waking up at 6 in the morning, squeezing onto a bus during the morning commute. Sounds like fun. Bring it on.

Hong Kong Update – Day 12 of 15

It has been over a week since the last Hong Kong update, and what a week it has been. I started writing something on Monday and worked on it through Wednesday and then decided it was too whiny to post, so I didn’t do it (if I ever decide to write an autobiography, I’ll share it in detail then). We viewed almost a dozen apartments in a matter of hours and picked one, we learned a quick-and-dirty way to transfer money from the U.S. to Hong Kong, and now we have started picking out appliances and furniture.

For the first (whiny) part, I basically wanted to say that I needed to stay true to myself and not try to suddenly become a Hong Konger. I noticed I was trying too hard to blend in (and actually, I’m still working on it). For example, I would try to speak Cantonese in a situation where I could have expressed myself better in English. I have to remember that our being different is and is going to be a fact of life. The truth is we grew up in the United States; our behaviors, perspectives, and mindsets are different, and people can see that. Of course, we are still going to try to put people at ease, if we can. We just won’t do it at our own expense.

So, it was one week ago that we went to a real estate agent and gave him our housing requirements. We immediately went on a whirlwind tour of flats. The first one was a rude awakening, grotesquely small. There were “rooms” that in reality were closets. Ouch. We were wondering what we’d gotten ourselves into. Luckily, that unit was an aberration. I think the one we finally picked was number 6 or number 7, a cozy little place that’s close enough to the main boulevard to be convenient but still far enough away to be quiet. We signed the lease on Thursday and will be getting the keys tomorrow, which is probably why I can’t sleep right now.

After we picked the place it was time to put down a deposit. I had barely enough in my HKD account to cover the initial payment, with the balance due on signing. I had to move money from the U.S., and quickly. But how? I was afraid that there wouldn’t be enough time for a wire transfer. We eventually figured out that the best way to do it was the ATM. The bank security guard probably thought we were up to something, because on the first day while we were still figuring out the daily maximum, we made several back-and-forth trips. In Hong Kong there are different ATMs for deposits and withdrawals, so I’d withdraw a stack of cash and then slide over to the adjacent machine. Then we’d leave so I could get money from an ATM at a different bank, only to return a few minutes later. It was like musical ATMs. The hilarity was definitely ensuing. After a couple of days, we had transferred enough to cover everything.

Finally, we have spent the past couple of days shopping around for furniture. Today I looked at TVs and yesterday we picked out a mattress and a rice cooker. The process is pretty much the same as it is back home, except the showroom spaces (as well as the mattresses) are smaller. There is also a lot more staff on hand, too many if you ask me. Nothing like having a used-car-salesman (or Best Buy) type follow you around while you try things out. Online shopping is almost nonexistent here, and paying for things in cash (even big ticket items) is much more common and expected.

Can’t believe it’s only been a week. Guess we’re moving fast and doing a lot. We’re looking forward to finally be able to slow down and settle into our new place. Next up: bedding and internet (the classic combo, right?). Good night!

Richfield, Utah to Las Vegas, Nevada – 288 Miles

Part of the beauty of having not kept up with blog posts during our actual adventure is that now it seems like I have an unending source of material to post whenever the feeling arises. Tonight, we have a random photo that popped up on my desktop slide show:

Somewhere in Arizona
Somewhere in Arizona

This photo was taken 11 days into our cross-country road trip in early November. We had just emerged from the canyons of Arizona on I-15, after starting the day’s trip in snowy Utah. Kinda crazy to go from snowy 30s temperatures to sunny 70s in a matter of hours.